Everything You Need to Know About Having Sex Wearing a Menstrual Cup


Period intercourse is a extremely divisive subject. Some ladies swear by it (myself included), whereas the thought of getting it on throughout Shark Week dials up the ick-factor for others. I get it.

That stated, Cathy Chapman, president of Lunette (an organization that makes menstrual cups) tells SheKnows that it’s best to by no means be ashamed of getting your interval or interval intercourse. There are so many wonderful stats on and advantages to having intercourse throughout menstruation. “Sex is messy anyway, so embrace your circulation and have open talks together with your companion about it,” she explains.

More typically than not, I’ve discovered my companions amenable to having intercourse throughout my interval. They’ve fingered me, engaged in penetrative intercourse or carried out oral intercourse on my clit, focusing efforts totally on the skin. I’m glad, they’re glad and we don’t let this pure month-to-month incidence get in the way in which an excessive amount of.

If you’re squeamish about blood, there are methods to mitigate the mess. Wearing a menstrual cup is 1 choice. Here’s every thing it’s worthwhile to learn about getting down and soiled whereas carrying a menstrual cup.

Period intercourse could be wonderful

When you’re using the crimson wave, your estrogen and testosterone ranges improve, which result in amped-up arousal. I’ve discovered that harnessing that power into an orgasm (or 5) supplies far more interval aid than popping a Midol.

Most menstrual cups aren’t designed for penetrative intercourse

Lunette is all about interval intercourse. “This stated, we don’t advocate having interval intercourse together with your Lunette cup in as a result of it may very well be very uncomfortable to you and to your companion as a result of the place the cup sits under the cervix,” Chapman says. “It’s really not meant to be used with repeated vaginal penetration.”

A greater choice may be Flex — a menstrual disc that matches up into your vaginal fornix, making interval intercourse potential.

But they do make for excellent mess-free oral intercourse

That stated, in the event you actually need to go for it with a cup in, Chapman recommends having oral intercourse. “Not only does it feel amazing (all the blood flow in your vagina makes things extra sensitive and pleasurable), you and your partner don’t have to be concerned over period leakage if that bothers you.”

Major design improvements are being made

Aside from Flex, there’s another choice. Intimina simply launched the Ziggy Cup, a stem-free menstrual cup, which is principally the reply to penetrative interval intercourse prayers. Its flat design sits beneath the cervix and feels very similar to a diaphragm (however doesn’t leak).

“Ziggy also has the added benefit of keeping things comfortable, because unlike tampons, it isn’t absorbent,” Amandine Pranlas-Descours, world model director of Intimina tells SheKnows.  “During your period, you’re still producing much-needed moisture (aka discharge) in addition to your menstrual fluid, so everything stays lubricated and your flow is cleared out of the body easier.”

Practice makes excellent

It can take a little bit of observe to determine the right positioning to your cup, so Pranlas-Descours says the primary few instances you utilize a menstrual cup, you would possibly need to put a towel down simply in case.

“Every vagina is different just like every body is different, and it’s always good to get a little more familiar with your own body,” she says. “Most important is to find your cervix to figure out how far you need to insert the cup. The back rim of the cup needs to go below and past the cervix (basically, the end of the vagina) while the front rim tucks into place behind the pelvic bone, right near the G-spot. Really, what you’re doing is wedging the Ziggy Cup [or other menstrual cup] between the back wall of the vagina and the pelvic bone so it cups your cervix. It kind of clicks into place and stays there until you’re ready to remove [it].”

There are much less messy options to penetrative intercourse

And if blood on the sheets turns your abdomen (no judgments!), Chapman suggests bathe intercourse or utilizing intercourse toys which can be fabricated from washable, medical-grade silicone as options. She loves Dame Products’ Eva (as do I). And as a lot as I really like assuming a women-on-top place throughout penis-in-vagina intercourse, I keep away from it throughout my interval strictly to keep away from an pointless massacre. Also, I actually like my mattress linens — and hate doing laundry.

Menstrual cups don’t double as contraception

Menstrual cups could present a barrier from blood, however they don’t block sperm. Despite frequent false impression, you possibly can nonetheless get pregnant throughout your interval. If you’re not on any sort of hormonal contraception, it’s best to nonetheless use a condom or different viable type of contraception.

Minimal-commitment menstrual cups

If you’re nonetheless on the menstrual cup fence, think about a Ruby Cup. Since each vagina is totally different, Ruby Cup provides dimension exchanges or a full refund in the event you don’t really feel the cup love. They additionally run a purchase 1, give 1 program, so for each cup they promote, they offer 1 to a lady or girl in want of menstrual care merchandise. Pretty cool, eh?

Are menstrual cups a superb match for everybody? Probably not, however lots of people who menstruate love them. And whereas conventional menstrual cups aren’t meant for use throughout intercourse, there are alternatives on the market designed for that function. Regardless of your selection of interval product or whether or not or not you go for getting it on throughout that point of the month, be sure you’re protected, comfy and wholesome, and do your factor!

Charyn Pfeuffer from theguardian.com

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