Devon Yanko is on a long term close to Mount Tamalpais, the hilly, coastal state park simply north of San Francisco. As the miles tick away, photos of her life scroll by way of her thoughts like a digital scrapbook. The longer she runs, the deeper it goes. “When I’m running, especially an ultra distance, I spend a lot of time ruminating,” Yanko, 35, says. “You can’t hide from the past. At a certain point, you’re going to get worn down.”
For Yanko, now a professional ultrarunner, working turned a manner not simply to flee the trauma from her previous, however to beat it. “When you’re in the midst of a 100-mile run, there’s no degree of optimistic considering that may override the ache of that distance,” she says. “As a person who spends a lot of time in my inner world, when I’m out there running, that’s not a process that shuts down. It becomes more acute.”
But what, precisely, is she working from? It all began when Yanko, a Seattle-area native who grew up as Devon Crosby-Helms, picked up basketball in center faculty. Because she was tall and quick, the sport got here naturally to her. It gave her a way of group and identification. Her dad left when she was six, so her mother was elevating her and her sister alone. “Basketball showed me the potential for sport to be a positive influence in my life,” Yanko says.
Six toes tall by her sophomore 12 months in highschool, Yanko turned a founding member of an elite, now-defunct women’ staff in Seattle known as Players Only. The women have been a tight-knit group—the staff practiced each day and traveled to video games collectively, and the gamers slept over at one another’s homes. They have been all working towards the identical aim: incomes a school scholarship to play ball.
Their coach was a 40-year-old man named Tony Giles, and for Yanko, he turned nearly like the daddy determine she didn’t have. They spent many hours collectively, touring to video games and lengthy practices, and he or she grew to belief him. But after just a few months of grooming, their relationship off the courtroom turned extra intense, and sooner or later at his home, she says Giles satisfied her to have intercourse with him. Yanko was 15.
“He was a charismatic personality and a master manipulator,” Yanko says. “Afterward, I thought, what just happened? It’s really complicated. You have this terrible thing that’s happening, but the powerful influence of this person rules everything. Hiding that secret became my top priority.”
For the subsequent 3 years, the abuse continued intermittently, and Yanko stored quiet. She thought she was the one 1 Giles was treating this manner, however finally she began to note patterns in his conduct towards different gamers. “There’s a part of you that almost doesn’t want to know who else this is happening to,” Yanko says. “You’re holding onto the hope that maybe it’s just you. Nobody wanted to talk about it.” Plus, Giles held the important thing to one thing very highly effective that Yanko and her teammates wanted: potential school scholarships. Turning him in or admitting what was taking place meant risking her complete future.
Yanko turned reserved and withdrawn. Even when she earned a coveted basketball scholarship to Fresno State University in California, it wasn’t sufficient to elevate her spirits. She tried to go away Seattle and the abuse behind, however 3 months later, she dropped out of school. Yanko gave up her scholarship, moved again to Seattle, and finally transferred to the University of Washington. She stop basketball for good. “I left expecting this immense relief, like I would be able to start a new life,” she says about her transfer to California. “But everything in my life had a foundation of nontruth, and I just couldn’t move on from that.”
When she returned to Washington, Yanko says she realized one in all her mates was additionally being sexually abused by Giles, who was nonetheless working as a coach. That was sufficient to make her lastly come ahead. “I knew I couldn’t save myself, but I could save other people by speaking up,” she says. “That was powerful enough for me to say, ‘Let me be the last person he does this to.’”
At 18, Yanko advised the police what Giles had performed. Some of her teammates and their dad and mom known as Yanko a liar. “It was like I announced I have the plague—everyone took a step back,” she says. But quickly, 1 different former participant got here ahead with proof that compelled Giles to take a plea deal. He pled responsible to sexual misconduct with a minor and was sentenced to 40 months in jail. Eventually, a number of different girls got here ahead, however the statute of limitations had run out. (Giles has since returned to jail for identification theft in 2010 to cover his legal historical past, and was arrested in 2013 for making sexually express feedback to a younger girl—a felony for somebody beforehand convicted of sexual assault.)
Yanko, who calls herself “a lifelong fan of therapy,” was issued a therapist from the state of Washington. It helped, however not sufficient. She couldn’t escape the emotions of self-doubt, concern, and loneliness. In highschool, she ran a 1/2 marathon with minimal coaching and did surprisingly nicely. So, to fill the outlet that basketball left in her life, Yanko began working once more. “That’s where I learned the power of running as a tool for working through emotions,” she says.
In 2003, at age 21, Yanko studied overseas in Cape Town, South Africa, and signed up for an additional 1/2 marathon, which she ran even sooner than her first. Two years later, whereas residing in London after school, she ran her first marathon, in Edinburgh, Scotland. “I was more hesitant with running than with basketball,” Yanko says. “I was good at it but not great. I never had aspirations of doing it professionally.”
But inside a 12 months, Yanko had run 3 marathons, dropping her time from 3:38 to three:08. She was hooked. “That was when I thought, I don’t suck at this,” she says. Yanko learn Dean Karnazes’ guide Ultramarathon Man and, at age 24, signed up for her first extremely, the Headlands 50Ok in California’s Marin County, a race lots of the sport’s prime runners compete in every year. She ended up within the prime ten, and on the end, well-known elite runners Nikki Kimball and Connie Gardner got here as much as Yanko and requested, “Who are you?” Those 2 girls finally helped deliver Yanko into the game, mentoring her from early on.
“The community is one of the fundamental reasons I became an ultrarunner. They were so welcoming,” Yanko says. “You sit around after races, you hang out. It was that team aspect that I had missed and lost from basketball. It helped heal that wound. Up until that point, I didn’t really trust anyone. I didn’t have many close friendships. The ultrarunning community showed me that these are good people and that we’re all just weirdos running around in the woods.”
Now 36, Yanko has gone on to turn out to be a five-time member of Team USA within the 100Ok. She’s received the San Francisco, Oakland, and Napa Valley marathons. She beforehand held the quickest identified time on the Grand Canyon Rim-to-Rim-to-Rim. Yanko travels the world competing, however working is a tough factor to make a residing at, so she acquired a job as a librarian, then later went to culinary faculty and labored as a private chef. She married ultrarunner baker Nathan Yanko, and, in 2013, with funds from a Kickstarter marketing campaign, they opened M.H. Bread and Butter, a bakery and café in San Anselmo, California. Yanko is at the moment getting a enterprise diploma to offer her extra expertise for working the operations aspect of their bakery.
Four years in the past, Yanko opened up about her sexual abuse in a story in Trail Runner journal, and he or she spoke about it in a 2017 short movie by filmmaker Billy Yang. In October 2017, amid the flurry of the #MeToo motion, Yanko wrote a blog post about her abuse. “Here we are, 17 years later,” she wrote. “I don’t think about that time in my life a great deal, I did the healing work I need to…The thing that is important for me to share is that we do have power to change things. We do have power to fight back and stand up.”
Yanko says she doesn’t wish to be often called the runner who was sexually abused. That’s not who she is or what defines her. “People tend to want to put you in a box and give you an identifier,” Yanko says. “I’m very much fine being an advocate for talking about abuse and advocating for what comes after, but it’s one part of my story. All things did not begin and end with this part of my life.”